Here's a great family showing unity by all participating in puppy class! However, sometimes I see conflict between family members about how to train or treat the family dog. It's important for unity, and for the dog's sake, that people in the same household are consistent toward the dog. It may be helpful to have a family meeting and discuss these questions:
1. What are our goals for this dog?
2. Who will be the primary trainer? (This should be an adult.)
3. How can the rest of us support the training efforts of this person? (The person holding the leash tells the dog what to do - others should be quiet!)
4. What are the commands we will use with the dog, and what exactly do these words mean? (Make a list and post it on the refrigerator!)
5. How can all family members participate in the training? (Even small children can do small tasks.)
6. What are specific jobs each person can have? (Write these down!)
Use these questions as a guide to beginning the conversation with your family about the dog and the training you envision. Keep the meeting very short - no more than 20 minutes. Find points of agreement, for example, "We all want the dog to ______."
Above all, remember that your family relationships are more important than your pet. Treat one another with respect and consideration as you work together making changes that will help everyone enjoy your dog more.
